Believe someone when they tell you they do not want you the first time.
One of the hardest lessons to learn in life is that sometimes people just don’t want us in their lives. It can be painful and confusing when someone tells us that they don’t want us around, especially if we care deeply about them. But it’s important to believe them the first time they tell us, even if it hurts.
When someone tells us that they don’t want us in their life, we may be tempted to try to change their mind. We may think that if we just try harder, or if we show them how much we care, they will eventually come around. But the truth is that if someone doesn’t want us in their life, it’s unlikely that anything we do will change their mind.
It’s also important to remember that we deserve to be with people who want us in their lives. We shouldn’t have to convince anyone to love us or want to be with us. If someone doesn’t want us, it’s better to move on and find someone who does.
Believing someone when they tell us that they don’t want us in their life can be difficult, but it’s an important step in learning to value ourselves and our own self-worth. It may hurt at first, but in the long run, it will lead us to healthier and happier relationships with people who truly want us in their lives.